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Cinayet, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama, iyiye de\u011fil, berbata lay\u0131k g\u00f6rme, hakaret, kalp k\u0131rmak, susmak\u2026 Say\u0131 olarak her g\u00fcn birer birer azal\u0131rken, asl\u0131nda en \u00e7ok birbirimize gereksinimimiz var. Yaralar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6stermeye, onarmaya, d\u00fc\u015feni kald\u0131rmaya, susmamaya\u2026<\/p>\n

Mustafa \u00c7akan, be\u015f y\u0131ld\u0131r birlikte oldu\u011fu Hacer G\u00f6ral\u2019\u0131 Antalya Koza\u011fa\u00e7 mevkisine getirdi. Yol kenar\u0131nda durdular, arabadan inip bir a\u011fac\u0131n alt\u0131na oturup ald\u0131klar\u0131 kavunu kesip yemeye ba\u015flad\u0131lar. Ortalar\u0131nda kolay bir mobilya tart\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 ya\u015fan\u0131rken, Mustafa kavunu kesti\u011fi b\u0131\u00e7akla Hacer\u2019e sald\u0131rd\u0131. Hacer can havliyle arabaya ka\u00e7t\u0131. Lakin Mustafa b\u0131\u00e7a\u011f\u0131 arka arda Hacer\u2019e saplad\u0131. Hayatta hi\u00e7bir a\u011fac\u0131n alt\u0131 u\u011fursuz, tekinsiz olmazken o a\u011fac\u0131n g\u00f6lgesinde Hacer hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybetti, u\u0308\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fu o gu\u0308n annesiz kald\u0131.<\/p>\n

Turgut \u00d6zkaraca ve kar\u0131s\u0131 Ay\u015fe kurduklar\u0131 meze sofras\u0131nda muhabbet ediyordu. Rak\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7erken ne olduysa, bir \u015feylerden tart\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131lar, belirli ki meze tabaklar\u0131ndan birinde yedi kat ellerin ge\u00e7imsizli\u011fi vard\u0131. Turgut masadan kalkt\u0131, gitti, i\u00e7erden tabancas\u0131n\u0131 getirdi ve kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u015faka\u011f\u0131na dayad\u0131. Nas\u0131l bir tesadu\u0308fse namluda kur\u015fun oldu\u011funu unutmu\u015ftu, teti\u011fi \u00e7ekince tabanca patlad\u0131, Ay\u015fe \u00f6ldu\u0308. Sorduklar\u0131nda \u2018Asl\u0131nda tek hedefim onu korkutmakt\u0131\u2019 dedi. Taba\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7inde erimi\u015f buzlar\u0131n, yar\u0131s\u0131 i\u00e7ilmemi\u015f bardaklar\u0131n, kurumu\u015f mezelerin bula\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sonraki gu\u0308n kim bilir kim y\u0131kad\u0131?<\/p>\n

Vedat Ak\u00e7a, kendisine sigara paras\u0131 vermeyen, be\u015f ayl\u0131k gebe kar\u0131s\u0131 Nuray\u2019\u0131n bo\u011faz\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131\u00e7akla keserek \u00f6ldu\u0308rdu\u0308. Kamil Gelg\u00f6r kar\u0131s\u0131 Aysel\u2019i otobu\u0308s dura\u011f\u0131nda, g\u00f6\u011fsu\u0308nden sekiz b\u0131\u00e7ak darbesiyle \u00f6ldu\u0308rdu\u0308. Mustafa \u00d6ztel, kar\u0131s\u0131 Ayda\u2019y\u0131 kemerle bo\u011farak \u00f6ldu\u0308rdu\u0308. \u00d6zdemir Serin, kar\u0131s\u0131 Gu\u0308lseren\u2019i banyoda baltayla ba\u015f\u0131na vurarak \u00f6ldu\u0308rdu\u0308. Duran Cankurt, dayaktan ka\u00e7\u0131p yak\u0131nlar\u0131na s\u0131\u011f\u0131nan e\u015fi Necmiye\u2019yi \u2018Gel bar\u0131\u015fal\u0131m\u2019 diye meskene \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, kap\u0131dan giren kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131\u00e7aklayarak \u00f6ldu\u0308rmu\u0308\u015ftu\u0308. Bahar \u00d6zcan, nu\u0308fusa kay\u0131tl\u0131 ismiyle Sonbahar, iki \u00e7ocuk annesiydi. Kocas\u0131 \u00dcnal kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n kendisini aldatt\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan emindi, \u00e7u\u0308nku\u0308 telefonuna \u00e7ok bak\u0131yordu. Gece \u00dcnal\u2019\u0131n g\u00f6zu\u0308ne uyku girmedi, sabaha kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 uykusunda bo\u011faz\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131karak \u00f6ldu\u0308rdu\u0308. Sonbahar olarak \u00f6lece\u011fini biliyormu\u015f \u00fczere Bahar yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ismi de hayallerine yetmedi.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcya tu\u0308m bunlar t\u0131pk\u0131 u\u0308lkede, birebir c\u00fcr\u00fcm mahallinde, tek bir katilin elinden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Katillerin hepsi duru\u015fmadaki savunmalar\u0131nda, \u2018Pi\u015fman\u0131m hakim beyefendi. \u00c7ok seviyordum onu, o da beni\u2019 dedikleri bayanlar\u0131 yaln\u0131zca bayan olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6ldu\u0308rdu\u0308ler. Gazetelerin ana sayfas\u0131nda bir k\u00f6\u015feye s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131klar\u0131 bayanlar\u0131, u\u0308\u00e7u\u0308ncu\u0308 sayfalar\u0131na \u2018B\u00f6yle vah\u015fet g\u00f6ru\u0308lmedi\u2019 diye ta\u015f\u0131yan medya, habere ekledikleri foto\u011fraflarda bayanlar\u0131n yu\u0308zu\u0308nu\u0308 saklamay\u0131p, isimlerini a\u00e7\u0131k a\u00e7\u0131k yazarken, katillerin yu\u0308zu\u0308nu\u0308 buzlad\u0131, isimlerini saklad\u0131. Bunun da bir tu\u0308r \u015fiddet oldu\u011funu bir gu\u0308n bile gu\u0308ndemine almad\u0131. \u015eiddet her vakit g\u00f6zle g\u00f6ru\u0308len bir \u015fey de\u011fil! Bunu her bayan bilir. A\u015fk\u0131n, sadakatin, arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n k\u0131l\u0131k de\u011fi\u015ftirebildi\u011fini, a\u015fk s\u00f6zcu\u0308klerinin boncuklar \u00fczere da\u011f\u0131l\u0131p ku\u0308fu\u0308re d\u00f6nebilece\u011fini, k\u0131ymetli arma\u011fanlar\u0131n, beklemedi\u011fin anda gelen ilginin bedel \u00f6detmeye varaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, d\u00f6ku\u0308len g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n her vakit g\u00fcnahs\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilir. Her bayan, bu ikiyu\u0308zlu\u0308lu\u0308\u011fu\u0308n ortas\u0131nda bu cinayetlerin tek bir ki\u015finin elinden \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bu yang\u0131n\u0131n kundak\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n bir ki\u015fi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve t\u0131pk\u0131 vakitte azmettirenlerin, kundak\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n da hesap vermeyece\u011fini bilir.<\/p>\n

B\u0130Z\u0130M KEND\u0130M\u0130ZE YAPTI\u011eIMIZ\u2026<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Bayan du\u0308\u015fman\u0131 iktidarlar, bayan\u0131 can\u0131 nas\u0131l isterse o denli harcayan medya, sadece sevilmek, be\u011fenilmek u\u011fruna, kendini bir \u00f6du\u0308l \u00fczere sunan, \u2018Bu\u0308tu\u0308n bayanlar onun pe\u015findeydi, o beni se\u00e7ti\u2019 diyerek hayat\u0131n\u0131n hazinesi sand\u0131\u011f\u0131 adam\u0131n hayat\u0131 ona zindan edece\u011fini bile bile evlenenler ve hatta yaln\u0131zca onu se\u00e7ti diye ona lay\u0131k olabilmek i\u00e7in kendini unutan bayanlar, hayatlar\u0131ndaki erkeklerin bitmeyen ergenlik halleri, erkeklik krizleri kendilerinde fizik\u00ee yahut ruhsal yaralara yol a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 halde, \u2018Benim a\u011fr\u0131 e\u015fi\u011fim yu\u0308ksek\u2019 diye dola\u015fanlar, \u2018Bekarl\u0131k sultanl\u0131kt\u0131r\u2019 laf\u0131n\u0131n erkekler i\u00e7in de\u011fil bayanlar i\u00e7in yaz\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 h\u00e2l\u00e2 fark edemeyenler, evlili\u011fi karadan denize gemiler indirmi\u015f\u00e7esine zafer sayanlar\u2026<\/p>\n

B\u0130Z\u0130M B\u0130RB\u0130R\u0130M\u0130ZE YAPTI\u011eIMIZ\u2026<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Bu du\u0308nyan\u0131n en gereksiz kurumunu beceremeyenleri bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131yla a\u015fa\u011f\u0131layanlar, bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 evliyken onaylay\u0131p, bo\u015fand\u0131ktan bir gu\u0308n sonra bir viru\u0308s \u00fczere g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flayanlar, arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sar\u0131p sarmalamak yerine, arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n boynuna \u2018O da ge\u00e7imsizin teki\u2019 ipini ge\u00e7irenler, o ipin bir gu\u0308n kendi aya\u011f\u0131na dola\u015fmayaca\u011f\u0131ndan, aldat\u0131lmayaca\u011f\u0131ndan, bankadaki paras\u0131 kadar terbiyesizli\u011finin de haddi hesab\u0131 olmayan adamlarla su\u0308rdu\u0308rdu\u0308kleri hayat\u0131n kal\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan emin olanlar, kusuru daima hemcinsinde arayan yak\u0131n, uzak, arkada\u015flar, akrabalar, e\u015f\u015fek kadar o\u011fluna yapay g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131yla bak\u0131p \u2018Ben onu 18 ay emzirdim\u2019 deyip h\u00e2l\u00e2 o\u011flunu g\u00f6\u011fs\u00fcnden ay\u0131ramayan, gelininden bir tane iyi kelam\u0131 esirgeyip, gelinine, o\u011flunun ni\u015fanl\u0131s\u0131na o\u011flunun sefaletiymi\u015f \u00fczere davranan kaynanalar, g\u00f6zu\u0308nu\u0308 meslek h\u0131rs\u0131 bu\u0308ru\u0308mu\u0308\u015f, oburunun mutsuzlu\u011fundan beslenen, oburunun ba\u015f\u0131na gelen gu\u0308zel \u015feylere tahammu\u0308l edemeyen, senin mesle\u011fin bitsin diye \u2018Senin kocan \u00e7ok kazanm\u0131yor mu? B\u0131rak allah a\u015fk\u0131na \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131, keyfine bak\u2019 diyen, arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir poker masas\u0131 \u00fczere g\u00f6ren, arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 korkutup oyundan \u00e7ektirmek i\u00e7in bl\u00f6f yapanlar, kendini ak\u0131ll\u0131 \u00f6b\u00fcr herkesi aptal sananlar, bir kahve i\u00e7iminde yaln\u0131zca kendini anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, insan\u0131 i\u00e7ini d\u00f6kmekten vazge\u00e7iren bayanlar, sen i\u00e7ini d\u00f6ktu\u0308\u011fu\u0308nde asl\u0131nda eline koz verdiklerin, \u2018Senin iyili\u011fin i\u00e7in s\u00f6ylu\u0308yorum\u2019 diye ba\u015flayan her cu\u0308mlenin i\u00e7ini yontaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bile bile, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n oldu\u011fu halde buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k vermeyece\u011finden emin olanlar, susman\u0131 eziklik, nezaketini siliklik sananlar, bir gu\u0308n evvel g\u00f6ru\u0308\u015ftu\u0308\u011fu\u0308 arkada\u015f\u0131ndan kirpi\u011fi bile titremeden sonraki gu\u0308n \u00e7\u0131kaca\u011f\u0131 seyahati, konutuna yeni diktirdi\u011fi perdeleri, \u00e7ocu\u011fun okulunu de\u011fi\u015ftirdi\u011fini saklayan, \u2018Can\u0131m inanmazs\u0131n, hi\u00e7 haberim yok Cemal bize su\u0308rpriz yapm\u0131\u015f\u2019 yahut \u2018Aa yok vallahi de billahi anlatt\u0131m, sen o gu\u0308n biraz \u015feydin, duymam\u0131\u015fs\u0131nd\u0131r\u2019 kafesini senin u\u0308zerine kilitleyen bayanlar, kendi her ad\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 projelendirirken sana \u2018An\u0131 ya\u015fa\u2019 diyenler, \u2018can\u0131m s\u0131kk\u0131n\u2019 dedi\u011finde, \u2018gel ben seni toparlar\u0131m\u2019 diyece\u011fine \u2018Yoga yapsana\u2019 diyenler, yaz ortas\u0131nda kendi bah\u00e7esine de kar ya\u011fd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 gizleyenler, evlad\u0131ndan \u00e7ok elalemi \u00f6nemseyen analar babalar, uzak ya da yak\u0131n birebir g\u00f6kyu\u0308zu\u0308nu\u0308n alt\u0131nda nefes al\u0131p verdi\u011fimiz, bayanl\u0131 erkekli herkes, bu yang\u0131nlar\u0131n kundak toplamada iyisindir, onlar b\u00f6lmede. Sen cephede durursun, onlar karargahta.<\/p>\n

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\u2018BU AD\u0130SYONU K\u0130ME YAZALIM?\u2019 D\u0130YE SORSAN HERKES B\u0130RB\u0130R\u0130NE BAKAR<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

O denli bir utanmazl\u0131k \u00e7a\u011f\u0131 ki ma\u011fduriyet de yenilgi de daima bu kundak\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n hesab\u0131na yaz\u0131l\u0131r. Serinkanl\u0131 ve sistematik bir yalanc\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fcnde hadiselere \u015fahitlik eden tek bir ki\u015fi bile olmamas\u0131n\u0131n sebebi budur. Bu ma\u011fduriyet korosu; vicdanlarda, duru\u015fma salonlar\u0131nda kendini paka \u00e7\u0131karma konusunda uzmanla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, hemcinsini, \u00f6teki bir bayan\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamay\u0131, hakareti, kalp k\u0131rmay\u0131, ba\u015f\u0131nda \u015fi\u015fe k\u0131rmay\u0131, \u015fahitsiz hallederler. Bayan\u0131n beyan\u0131 ge\u00e7ersizdir. Bayan susmal\u0131d\u0131r, o denli gu\u0308lmemelidir, o denli giyinmemelidir, bayan illa ki bunu hak etmi\u015f bir \u015fey yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Lakin art\u0131k susmak fazilet de\u011fildir. U\u00e7urumun kenar\u0131ndan ba\u011f\u0131rmak yetmez, o u\u00e7urumdan uzakla\u015fmam\u0131z gerekir.<\/p>\n

B\u0130RB\u0130R\u0130M\u0130ZDEN \u00d6TEKI SI\u011eINA\u011eIMIZ YOK<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Say\u0131 olarak her gu\u0308n birer birer azal\u0131rken, her bayan\u0131n u\u0308zerine at\u0131lan topra\u011f\u0131n biraz\u0131 bizim u\u0308zerimize at\u0131l\u0131rken, bir gazete kupu\u0308ru\u0308nde daha i\u00e7imizden birinin hayat\u0131n\u0131n son bulmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in, birbirimize silikon izlerimizi, tam g\u00f6\u011fsu\u0308mu\u0308zu\u0308n alt\u0131ndaki yaray\u0131, g\u00f6z kenarlar\u0131m\u0131za yapt\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z botokslarla hangi yaral\u0131 ifadeyi silmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6stermeliyiz. Ortam\u0131zdan gu\u0308cu\u0308 tu\u0308kenenleri yerden kald\u0131rmazsak, yorulursak, y\u0131larsak bu mu\u0308cadeleyi kaybedece\u011fiz. Akl\u0131m\u0131zdan o a\u011fac\u0131n alt\u0131nda kalan o kavun, o teti\u011fi tutukluk yapmayan tabancalar, az \u00f6nce ekme\u011fi kesen sonra bir bayan\u0131n g\u0131rtla\u011f\u0131na, kalbine saplanan b\u0131\u00e7aklar, gazetelerden kesti\u011fi cinayet haberlerini meskenin salonuna yay\u0131p \u2018\u0130\u00e7lerinden se\u00e7 bakal\u0131m, hangisini tercih edersin\u2019 diyen o adamlar, o adamlar\u0131n \u00e7imentolarla doldurdu\u011fu bidonlar \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131n. Mezarl\u0131klar\u0131n \u00f6nu\u0308nden ge\u00e7erken radyonun sesini k\u0131ssan\u0131z da, kula\u011f\u0131n\u0131za kocas\u0131n\u0131n vurdu\u011fu Hanife\u2019nin hastahaneye g\u00f6tu\u0308ru\u0308lu\u0308rken kocas\u0131na sessizce \u2018\u2018Kazayla oldu deriz, korkma bir \u015fey olmaz\u2019 dedi\u011fi anki sesi, \u2018yap\u0131lan tu\u0308m mu\u0308dahalelere kar\u015f\u0131n kurtar\u0131lamad\u0131\u2019 diye biten haberler gelsin akl\u0131n\u0131za. Yoksa hi\u00e7 s\u00f6nmeyen bir yang\u0131n\u0131n siyah beyaz duman\u0131yla kalaca\u011f\u0131z ba\u015f ba\u015fa.<\/p>\n

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